I Need Blood.

When polled, most people will say more people do not donate blood for religious reasons than any other. The most often supplied excuses are listed here in order of prevalence. Each excuse has a compelling agrument against it.

Top Ten Reasons People Don’t Give Blood
…And the Argument Against Them

1. I am afraid of needles and the sight of blood.

English: A blood collection bus from Children’...

Every drop is needed.

When surveyed, people who give blood report they feel a very slight pinch at the needle insertion. After ten minutes, they are finished and wondering why they were afraid. The technicians at the blood draw site are trained to make the process as painless as possible.

In many donation sites, you will not see blood unless you are looking at the tubing from the catheter to the blood bag. Most technicians will move the collection bag to a spot out of view to make you feel more comfortable.

2. I don’t have time.

From the beginning of the questionnaire to walking out the door takes one hour. The actual blood draw only takes ten minutes. Your donation of one hour and one pint of blood could save a premature baby, a cancer patient and a car accident victim. Would you give one hour to save three people?

3. No one ever asked. I don’t think my blood is needed.

The United States needs 38,000 donations per day. Someone needs blood every two seconds-everyday.

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Sterile equipment and clothing protect technician and donor.

4. I will get AIDS.

A sterile needle is used on you and then thrown away. It is impossible to get AIDS from donating blood.

5. I don’t have enough blood to donate.

Adults have ten to twelve pints of blood and can replace donated blood in less than 24 hours. Humans can survive with only six pints.

6. I’m too old/sick. They don’t want my blood.

Age is not a factor in determining eligibility to give blood. The only weight restriction is you be at least 110 pounds.

Infectious blood cannot be used. The diseases include: HIV, AIDS, hepatitis, bleeding disorders (hemophilia), blood and lymph cancer, Hodgkin’s disease, Creutzfeldt-Jakob disease (Mad Cow Disease) or diabetics who used bovine (beef) insulin from Great Britain after 1980, hemochromatosis, tuberculosis, intravenous (IV) drug users (risk of hepatitis and HIV/AIDS). All of these people need blood.

7. My blood type is rare. I’ll wait until there is a need.

There is always a need and most especially for rare blood types. You should give so a crisis situation does not occur.

8. My blood is not the right type.

If it is a common type, the demand is high. Most people who need blood will have your type. If your type is rare, there are very few donors, which makes the supply very small. All blood types are needed everyday.

9. I already gave blood this year.

You can donate blood every fifty-six (56) days. Some donors give blood five times per year.

10. I don’t want to feel weak when I donate.

Healthy adults have no after effects from donating blood. You have more than enough blood in your body to donate without weakening your system. Most donors go about their day without interruption.

Starve the little muggers.

Very few people are prohibited from giving blood. Even fewer choose not to donate blood for religious reasons, which is why it does not make the list. The top ten reasons more people don’t give blood can easily be argued against. Choose to save lives. Give blood.


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Fasten Your Seat Belts

A 5-Point harness.

Buckle up. It

Those who have been on board for a while know it is not my style to go on an all-out rant. I generally temper my rants with either humor or knowledge which I feel has some import. If you are seeking the smooth roller coaster ride normally associated with M3, please fasten your harness tighter, for this will not be one such ride.

The Ascent

I have been steady supplying a stream of (at least I think it is) important information regarding the simple pitfalls of relationships, the common cracks in the pavement which trip the average Mate and cautionary or restorative advice in the ways to avoid or repair relationship damage.

We have discussed the foundation: Friendship. We have discussed the mechanics: Honesty, for one. We have discussed the ceremony: Wedding. We are beginning the full Monte: Marriage.

Bumping up to the top.

The Jerks in the Chain

Never once in my wildest dreams did I honestly believe everyone who stopped in for a cuppa and a comment would endorse my ideas. In real life, I cannot get any random two of my Quaints out of a group to agree anything I say is worthwhile, much less applicable. So, I came to this blog, with its heady topics, eyes wide open.

The Curve at the Top

I admit: I have fed the bears. And no, I am not talking about my Bear and the cubs. I am talking about the people who continue to bash me in comments and in my inbox and on their own blogs. Why is this the curve at the top? You have no concept of what is to come, so this is the smooth part of the ride where your anticipation builds expecting something fun.

Going down.

The First Plunge

I have never made any secret of the fact I have been married more than once or that I have been divorced. From said marriages, I learned much of what I impart-both from the standpoint of what to and what not to do. From classes, doctors, therapists, study and programs, like Refuse to Be a Victim, I have learned more about how abusive things happen, continue and re-happen.

From witnessing more than one 50+ year marriage (and one three months shy of 60), I learned the pieces necessary for longevity. From proctoring divorces in real time, I have seen the devastating effects on all parties.

Quick to the Top

From assorted religious establishments, I have learned life with a higher power can be a relief from much of the strife of everyday mundanity. From my children, I have learned the benefits of patience. From the idiots who reside within a 500 mile radius of me regardless of my location, I have learned tolerance.

From learning to say “No”, I have gained a peace in my life which allows me the freedom to love without reservation.

The Second Plunge

My tolerance and patience with those outside my direct social circle (read me and mine) is completely exhausted. No, I am not emotionally bankrupt: I have overdraft protection. I am, however, certain there will be far less mollycoddling of those who choose to spew unsupported innuendo, rumors, mythology and outright lies.

Round and round and round.

A Spiral

I am not particularly adroit at circular logic. Do not ask me about chickens and eggs. Existential reasoning, quantum mechanics, linear time, physics, statistics, genetics, biology, calculus, chemistry… we can have a grand conversation. Do not ask me to forgo the simple principles to accept your opinion which has no basis in fact or reality.

Do not send me an (engraved) invitation to your delusion. My travel agent does not endorse that destination.

Disembark

I hope you have kept your hands and arms inside the ride. If you have not, triage for bloody limbs is hosted on another blog more tolerant of those who refuse to act in their own best interest. Additionally, triage for hurt feelings has been closed due to lack of emotional capital.

After the ride, you may be a little disoriented. Please watch your step. The platform is slippery.


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Marriage is a Credit Card.

Mathis WeddingMarriage vows differ from religion to religion, culture to culture and belief system to belief system. In all the diversity, one common thread runs through them all: Better or worse.

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Writer’s Spotlight: Roger Smith

It has been a hopping week in the M3 Coffee Shoppe this week! Red caught up with Roger Smith, holder of many a dream job, to talk about his new book Dust Devils. Roger had some exciting news share!

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Talk Tuesday

Welcome to M3’s first interactive post! I am glad you came to join in the discussion.

Tonight, we are going to discuss in further detail the marriage vows and our ideas of what love really is between Mates.

Marriage Day

I take thee...

Just to catch you up, here are the basics for this discussion:

  • Marriage is a contract.
  • Except for Buddhist vows, all traditional vows use love as a verb.
  • Only religious ceremonies refer directly to fidelity in the vows.
  • English does not do justice to the word love as a verb or a noun as it relates to marriage.

Questions at hand:

  1. What does love between spouses really mean? 
  2. Is it adequately represented in the wedding vows discussed?
  3. Would your Mate agree to your definition?
  4. Have you ever asked?
  5. If so, what answer did you get?
  6. How does the lack of specificity bear on those who feel marriages fail?

How This Works

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You talk. I talk.

There will be a number of comments go live within moments of this post. There will be a comment for each of the above questions, with some commentary added. When you get to the end of this, likely the comments will have all had time to post. Please reply directly to the comment itself. You will find a “reply” button in the lower right hand corner of the comment. Each comment will be its own discussion.

My responses will be directly to your comments, as they normally are.

If you have a question which is not covered by the comments already, comment directly to the post with the Tell Me More box. Please be sure to leave five stars if you are a participant in (or gain any insight from) tonight’s discussion.

If you need to read…

…the posts and comments which brought us here:

I Take Thee, Mate,

In the Interest of Brevity

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