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For those of you who have occasion to know why this song is fitting for me, you should get a giggle. No sense looking at the screen, there is not a video attached. Merely listen to the music as you read. It sets the mood…perfectly.

Dueling

The pelting grows
softer, but only for
the moment.
It is the calm in
between the
storms.

First came the flurry
of crackling
electricity.
Then ravenous
thunder peals
ensued.

The rivulets stream steadily
smooth from the
eave’s edge.
Freckles dot the view
through inky
glass.

They are all to be seen since
the Cheshire moon
went and hid.
Bullied by roiling
clouds and
lightning.

Despite hundreds of thousands
of miles in between
them,
The sky simply
is not big
enough.

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 I hope you have had a pleasant and restful weekend.

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16 Comments

  1. I love it. I love storms and the music is a great background for this.

    MJ

    P.S. No I’m not a spammer, spambot or spam spinner. Yes okay I’ll check the box. LOL
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  2. Well that was electrifying….thanks Red
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  3. Laurie

     /  June 4, 2012

    there was more past him?? ……he fits it well…….

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  4. I like this one a lot Red and yes a nice weekend, of course it could have been a lot better but that’s life I guess :)

    Be good now :)
    Noooo strike that,
    be wicked and a
    tad naughty ;)

    Androgoth XXx

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  5. Que the tumbling tumble weed!
    Here’s hoping your week is a bit more relaxed!
    :)
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  6. But space is! And no lightning in space to worry about, either.
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    • Red

       /  June 4, 2012

      ROFL! Have to tell the Moon to move a tad further away.

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  7. So far so good hun! :)

    Loved the old Spaghetti Westerns – I used to watch them with my grandparents at their farm!!! :)

    Love and hugs!

    Prenin.
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    • Red

       /  June 5, 2012

      I did not fall into spaghetti westerns until most of the character actors were dead. It brings be to a different time, which I have had the chance to partake in dribs and drabs. They all remind me of my great grandparents’ farm. The countryside could have been the set of any of those movies. {HUGZ} Red.

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  8. That song plays in my head when I say something in my house and the “other” says: “Really?”
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    • Red

       /  June 13, 2012

      ROFL! It is my ringback tone. I find it soothing and fitting.

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