All posts tagged relationships

Come to Jesus Meetings

The results are in and were a bit of a surprise to me. I asked: Is it possible to have a relationship without Come to Jesus meetings?” Results 55% said, “Yes” 9% said, “Yes, but when CTJ occurs the relationship is over.” 9% said, “No, CTJ hurt the relationship.” 27% said, “No, CTJ help the […]

Count ’em on One Hand

The inbox contained a jewel this week. Let’s discuss this question: Does the number of real life friends a person has define them? The short form: No. Why not? Another excellent question.

Marriage Mathematics

This is not a post about algebra (yet). It is about marriage, even if you find both equally unappealing. It is dedicated to the math- and algebra-phobic and all of those who never thought they would use math ever again once they got out of high school and college. Expectation John McDevitt (of The Aware […]

Expectations=Disappointment?

While we were discussing bad behavior, Valentine (of QBG Tilted Tiara) gave us her list of reasonable expectations. How do expectations affect your relationship? Marriage is a business. Marriage is a partnership. We call our spouses partners because we are in the business of marriage. If you think of work ethic applied to marriage, this […]

Blind Love Has No First Sight

talking in context

Yesterday, we talked about whether or not marriage is for you. The audience was active in sharing what may have been missing from the original list of flags for a marriage destined for divorce. Laurie, of Dazed & Confused, brought up an interesting point.