The regularly scheduled post for tonight has been preempted so Mantra can bring you what she thinks compliments Clyde’s Friday idea. If you are not clear on what that means, stop by the SEP and skip down to Clyde. When you get to the end, we will be right here waiting for you.
See how quick that was? The SEP closed with a pretty powerful challenge. Mantra may have had a hand in derailing Clyde’s Wednesday idea to move this particular poem up in the schedule from late July.
The crux of the challenge is to squeeze as much life out of our time as we can. Find accomplishment in finishing things…even chores. Find enjoyment in the everyday things…like the music we hear around us. Find friendship…you never know how well you are going to like someone until you ask them about themselves.
In order to enjoy now, you have to do two things.
1. Stop living in the past.
This is a lot like trying to race a funny car using only the rearview mirror. The short form: You are going to crash.
No, do not forget your past…it made you who you are today. But do not spend your life measuring what you have/are now against a yardstick which is 15 (minutes, weeks, years) beyond its expiration date. Just as important: Do not spend all your time blaming your lack of now on someone or something in your past. Wait. Stop.
Whose past? Yes, your past. Not the someone or something’s past. Your past. To quote Pumbaa:
Put your behind in the past.”
2. Stop living for the future.
If you have been promised a future 15 (minutes, weeks, years), you have been conned. Let’s look at a few now wasters:
- Working all of your waking hours.
- Scheduling all your waking hours.
- Failing social engagements (this means dinner with your children) for the above.
- Pursuing advancement to the exclusion of all else.
- Hoarding wealth (successfully or not) for an overindulged retirement.
When you are frittering away now in favor of living (better, wealthier, _________er) in the future, you are missing something.
The time you have is a gift.
It is short and finite and now.
Right now is the only now ever.
The present only lasts for but a moment.
It is unique because no one else has one,
Not like the one which will become
The memory of the future, your past.
Is this what you want to look back on?
Mold it. Shape it. Sculpt it. Refine it.
You are making history. Build it.
Today is the foundation. Level it.
All it takes is a little imagination.
Is your cornerstone parallel to the square
Or is it perpendicular to the inane?
Move this way, a bit closer to the center.
Have you thought of a name for the monument?
Be it castle, tower, barn or palace,
Tree house, tent, motor home, submarine.
Build it strong and individual, real,
So the memories bring you enjoyment.
(c) Red Dwyer
Is your present memorable? Are you living in the now or the past or the future? Name something off your bucket list. Can you spend now eradicating one of the excuses why you are not doing it?
(c) Ann Marie Dwyer 2012
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