Hodge Podge

So, after the weekend+ of strength and weakness, fun and frivolity and outright absurdity, we have some things which are still hanging about like the sleeve out of the suitcase…

Stand up and be counted.

Keeping with the Search Themes

I wrapped up the savings poll. Some interesting numbers there:

4% of you are borrowing from savings, banks, retirement or family.
52% are just making enough to make ends meet.
13% are saving under $1,000.
Another 13% are saving between $1,000 and $4,999.
9% are saving between $5,000 and $9,999.
9% are saving over $10,000

So, I have to ask…do we go back to more practical ways of saving money as a sideline to the blog? I know we have better discussions when we do not talk money, but I see some need among those reading. Remember, these numbers are mixed between the online survey and the real life interviews I do.

The Search for M3

On this week’s SEP you got a chance to vote for which search term brings the most people to M3. By the comments the most popular search term was “naughty bedtime clipart”. Seriously, if you have not seen the list, go. Hurry. But do not have coffee in your mouth. “Finger flushing toilet” came in second.

The winner is: Slacker at work. Now, if you ever doubted SEO tactics, this one is the prime example. One stinking article written on the subject. If you did not see Monday’s announcement of where the blog stands and is headed, you cannot appreciate how idiotic this really is. *Shrugs*

Double Latte, Extra Shot with a Twist

M3 is going to rearrange the furniture soon. The Library will be opening. The M3 Coffee Shoppe has been such a success the original featured authors and musicians will be moving to leave the Coffee Shoppe just for the featured artists. Stop by and see what is new with Roger Smith, Robin Badillo and Come Back Buddy. While you are there, pull up a rocker, grab a cuppa and open a new book or simply listen to some great music.

Caring is Sharing

I want to extend a very heartfelt thank you to the many visitors who are sharing what they read at M3 with their social networks on Facebook, Twitter, Linked.In, Digg and Google+. I am a member at all of these sites and am always flattered when I see a post from M3 on your pages. If you have not networked with me in these spaces, stop by About Momma for links to find me.

Headed for a Million

If you really think about it and you have read all the posts so far, you have already read the equivalent of a novel and a half. M3 is 81,ooo+ words in on the way to 1,000,000. And no, that does not include the nearly 30,000 words in the comments. So, if you read all the comments you have read two. I want you to stick around to watch the meter fill up and inspire me to reach a million words on M3.

Nothing worse…

Than being fed something you did not order. I am asking you…

What would you like M3 to cover over the next few months? 

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Muse for Monday

We continue to talk of strength and character. While we project it to the outside world, what are we really saying to those close? Are we as clear in our projections to Mate and friends as we are to the complete stranger in the street? Today, I ask you, “What is….

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Strength & Weakness: Nature

Our discussions of the strengths and weaknesses of men and women led to the question of how much of what we perceive as strength and weakness is a product of societal norms and what was genetically inherent to the sexes.

We are all human.

When polled, the audience (and my research subjects and the doctors who helped with this series) were quick to choose self-sacrifice in relationships as a strength. Ironically, that same self-sacrifice in terms of gender was considered a weakness. What is the difference? The difference answers the question of what nature brings to the table. First, let’s set some background.

In a Vacuum

None of us grows up in a vacuum. We are exposed to others, their actions, their inaction, their emotions and the consequences of all three. Genetically, we are wired to be inquisitive. Like every human characteristic, some pursue the curiosity with a verve while others are content to let the information come to them.

Knee-jerk

Instinct is difficult to circumvent. Instinct is not learned behavior. It is something which need not be taught because the mind will act in a situation without the consultation of the heart, without ego and without training.

Show Me

A good example is to see an adolescent left with a newborn for the first time. Even without educational preparation, he will care for the infant at an instinctual level. He will remove his own clothing to keep the child warm. He will offer or obtain food for the child. This is a primal example of natural self-sacrifice: Natural strength.

X,Y

This example is not about male and female. It is about being human. The innate capability of compassion, perseverance and/or empathy is one of the distinctions (and strengths) we use to define our species. It transcends gender. Yet, that said, it is not equally applied. Just because all humans are upright does not mean we are all the same height.

Exceptions

There will always be the exception to the rule. Sociopaths are the first group which come to mind. This particular pathology precludes the instincts to act as social animals, which humans are. By design, we seek out others and try to connect through our emotions, intellect and chemical attraction. We try to become part of a larger humanity than we offer of our own accord.

What about nurture?

Nurture is where the difference lies between self-sacrifice as a weakness rather than a natural strength.  Enter social experience. Tomorrow, we shall discuss the way social interaction changes what we consider a strength into a weakness.

If you have missed the beginning of this series, visit the following links to catch up. The comments are important to understanding how we got to this post.

Strength & Weakness: Hers

Strength & Weakness: His

Strength & Weakness: His vs. Hers

Strength & Weakness: Theirs


Name an example of natural strength or name another exception.

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We Interrupt This Program...

To everyone who has followed and nurtured and sounded off in the Strength & Weakness series, I thank you! Questions have been asked which necessitate a bit more information than I initially had on hand on a Sunday. I am still assembling something cogent to further our discussion.

If you have not been following, start here. You can find links to the next segment after the comments, which are worth reading! Feel free to comment as well.

Your regular noon post will be delayed a few hours while I finish assembling the information I need. Thank you for your patience.

<<<——– Did you vote in this poll?

Meanwhile, visit and vote for some of the fantastic blogs in the Green Room. Vote up the ones you like! I hope you get a few giggles!

Have you made it to visit the new features in the Coffee Shoppe? Scroll on over and see who is new.

Have you posted a link to your blog there?  Well, what are you waiting for exactly? That was your personal invitation!

Until then,
Red.

The post emerged…finally. Stop by and check out Strength & Weakness: Nature.

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It Is All About The Numbers

Polski: Prosty wykres słupkowy

7,049

2,137

366

51

10

1

1,000,000

What do these numbers have in common? (Cue Jeopardy music) BUZZ! Oops, out of time. As your parting gift…I will tell you.

7,049

This is the number of visits M3 has gotten in its infant career. Judging from polls of my colleagues, this is not too shabby.  Three of my favorite blogs began the same week as M3. Combined, they do not have this many visits.

2,137

I have the most talked-to daily blog on the block. Well, at least of the 200ish I follow who do not have a paying audience. That is the number of comments which have been made on posts at M3.

366

Number of articles across the blogosphere which reference a post on M3. You have been a big help there. Your links back here are a tremendous asset to me. I like to think it means you find what I put here worthwhile. I could be wrong. Chances are good at least 1/3 of those are referencing me as “what NOT to do.”

51

Number of days M3 has been around. How many more is up to you, my beloved audience.

10

Number of times I have asked for your statistical input for a post. I run polls all the time. I do it on M3 and other places and in person. The writer in me is a mutt…also part statistician. One of my commenters noted I was an observer of humanity. I am also an observer of inhumanity, unfortunately.

1

The total number of typing writers bringing this blog to you three times per day (at least). Some days, I also update some of the pages here. Especially, the M3 Coffee Shoppe, which I update weekly. By the way, I will be changing the format there in the near future, so stay tuned for a new page and a little different feel.

1,000,000

The number of post words I want on this blog.  So far, so good. Watch the meter go up everyday. When it looks like it did not move, kick me in the comments so I get something posted. Just remember…it takes 10,000 words for it to move 1%. Guess this means I should write something, eh?

Help me out here.

Give me some ideas to keep me bulldozing through topics. What would you like to read? I know what has been popular so far, but you are quite a diverse group. Incidentally, you keep me on my toes. Since N.O. O.N.E. was interested in what I first wrote on this blog, we have obviously gone in a different direction. You get to steer. Where are we headed next?

PS

If you have forgotten where we have been, check the lower menu bar or press the very large tags Credit Cards, Travel, Emergency Funds or Saving Money.

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